Reflections of an adult male
" On reaching my mid thirties, I realised I could not go on like I was,
every small task, which I failed at, would always trigger something from
the past, which made me feel worthless & stupid. In turn, it would cause
uncontrolled fits of aggression & rage, it was like dragging a boulder
around with me, which I tried all my life to shake off, by doing sports,
college courses & martial arts.
Then, I came across the book'The Gift Of Dyslexia' and with research, it
put me in touch with Phyllida.
I can say the experience was life changing for me, hard work & painful
at times. Phyllida had a way of connecting with me, which helped me open
up & learn.
After completing the course, within 2 weeks, I fitted a new kitchen
without losing my temper, applied for a new job, which I didn't get, but
the major difference was it didn't matter, I had had a go. After
training in martial arts for 15 years, I won Gold (British Champion) &
Silver in consecutive competitions.
As I sit here, writing this for anyone who wishes to read it, I can
honestly say I have found peace with myself and I'm happy in my own
skin. Anyone who is dyslexic & feels the inadequacy I have felt and the
sense of failure will be left behind, if you are ready & willing to do
the course & will be the person you know you can be.
Phyllida, is the first person in my life who actually understands me &
what I've been through, if you're dyslexic, its a great relief to find
someone like her and I thank her for changing my life and making me feel
at peace with myself."
Phyllida Howlett lives in Wales. Her contact details are at www.unlocking-learning.co.uk/phyllidahowlett